泊珏与小蝶结婚15年，她们都年届不惑。他们自大学相恋至今17年，共同走过风风雨雨，相濡以沫，尤其经历最初的艰苦岁月（泊珏那时时而失业）。后来，老天有眼，眷顾这对年轻夫妇，保佑他们生活蒸蒸日上。终于2004年他们如愿可以技术移民加拿大。泊珏这下可让小蝶到她理想的地方。他们约定到小蝶入籍，便可常相厮守。这期间小碟一人呆在加拿大，泊珏则要在大陆努力工作为他们的将来打拼，他们得忍受相思之苦。尽管他们每年只见一次（一个月），他们都信守自己对婚姻的神圣诺言。直到2007年初，他们在加拿大买了房子, 终于有了自己的窝。小蝶非常快乐可以生活在这样一个风景如画，写意的地方而且是在自己的房子。但她觉得她一直以来不如泊珏爱她那样爱泊珏。现在她将要入籍，按照他们以前的约定，他们要重新相聚。但她担心回到以前的地方，她担心自己后悔没有与她更爱的人（她是天平座，凡事讲求公平）生活。她想追寻一段她的爱而不在乎一直被泊珏爱。但是她承认只有泊珏永远是她在这个世上可以谈心的人。泊珏试图说服她他是她的真命天子，而她是他心目中的女神。泊珏同意放弃一切，与她共居加拿大。泊珏相信婚姻，忠于一生的誓言，想要疼爱小蝶直到地老天荒。只要在一起，他相信他们可以不在乎外面的风雨。但是，小碟还在犹豫…泊珏心乱如麻，心如刀绞，要想说服小蝶：回来。
各位相信婚姻，相信爱的朋友，请你们帮助泊珏，将你的建议寄：earl.hu@hotmail.com谢谢你们。
Earl married to Xiao Die for 15 years. They fell in love since campus age about 17 years ago. They went through all thick and thin, tears and laughter especially the first few years when from time to time Earl did not get a job even. Then god blessed this young couple through years and keeps making their lives better and more prosperous. In 2004, they finally manage to immigrate to Canada as Earl promised to Xiao Die to let her live better. They agreed to reunion finally when Xiao Die got citizenship while Earl has to support the family and work hard staying far away from Xiao Die who is responsible for getting the citizenship. Although they only meet each other once a year, their hearts beat together and they keep their sacred oath of marriage till early 2007 when they bought a flat. Xie Die was so pleased with freedom of living in such a scenery area in own house. She is afraid to return to her husband’s place now. She found she received too much love from him for so many years. And she wants to find someone to whom she could love instead of just enjoying being loved. She also admitted that Earl is her soul mate forever. Earl tried to persuade her that he is her best man. To compromise, Earl told her that he could come to Toronto so that she does not need to experience the painful integration process to the old place. Earl believes that as long as they stay together he could continue to look after her and they could weather through any painstaking outside. However, she still wavers although she is so envied by many peers in mainland China who believe they are blessed by heaven.
Earl is running out of wisdom to convince Xiao Die.
Dear friends, can you please help Earl to convince Xiao Die not to leave him?
Please send your idea to earl.hu@hotmail.com. Thank you so much
，帽子丢了，也应该如此
还有就是有些帖子也许是坑（不是指此帖）
我刚刚看到这句，胸闷一刚～