推荐一本好书：
VoiceMale: What Husbands Really Think About Their Marriages, Their Wives, Sex, Housework, and Commitment
有关如何找到另一半的调查，英文畅销书节选
也是IELTS泛读好资料
http://fs8.139.com/0/363/caclub/share/200631891345489.html
一见钟情的证明：在一周到一月内产生结婚决定的更幸福。。。
"very happy" 比较：
在一月内作决定的有 75% 认为 "very happy"
vs
一年内作决定56% 认为 "very happy"
But every now and then, a man knows almost immediately that he's met his match. According to my survey, 8 percent of husbands knew they wanted to marry their wife within a week of meeting her; an additional 5 percent said they knew within a month.
Interestingly, my survey shows that a man who knows within a month of meeting a woman that he wants to marry her is likely to be happier in the marriage than a man who takes longer to decide. Three-quarters of those who knew within a month described themselves as "very happy" in their marriages compared to 56 percent of those who took a year or longer to make a decision.
网上交友成功有1%，本群加入移友先后接近200，很快接近理论数字拉，大家踊跃呵
24 percent of husbands met their wives in school, some as early as elementary school. Those married more than thirty-five years were most likely to have met their wives in school (36 percent).
18 percent met their wives at a social event, such as a dance, party, or wedding.
18 percent were introduced to their wives by friends or family members.
14 percent met their wives at work. This figure has changed dramatically since the middle of the last century. Among those married more than thirty-five years, only 2 percent met their wives at work. This compares to 23 percent of those married in the past three years. This change is no doubt due to the influx of women into the workplace.
6 percent met their wives at a bar.
4 percent met their wives at church, at synagogue, or in another religious setting.
1 percent met their wives online.
physical beauty, a positive outlook, and self-respect ...是择偶前几位因素
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