Crying, crying, Crying kissing kissing,this is the moment when my BF saw me off at the airport 5 years ago...
I went aboard to study MBA by myself, I quit my "white color beauty" career in mainland, went far away from my boyfriend, my parents just for seeking a dream---get more improvments, get more experiences?? what a funny joke?? However, that was my real thoughts at that time.
More than 13 hours flight, I arrived a small beautiful town in England, it was November, Xmas was coming, many pretty decorations already fill of the street, people were nice and friendly.
I arrived at my small flat ( I booked it from university student union), shared with another 3 Chinese Student. Because of Xmas would come soon, I found a job very quick, dish washer,--from 17:00-12:30 each Friday & Sat, study in day time, call my BF everyday. I felt time went fast and expect finishing study asap.
1 Jan, New Year's Day, Off day, big sale in down town, I decided to go the NEXT, I heard that this shop only give discout in Xmas time and New years time otherwise the goods are very expencisive. I want to buy some gifts for my BF, but I realized that I did not know the British Size of T-Shirt, it was different from Chinese Size," what should I do"? Sunddly, I saw a man with glasses and beard, I couldn't tel where he was from, but he is as tall as my BF, as fit as my BF, so I asked him "what size of your T-Shirt?, I want to buy a T-Shirt for my boyfriend, he is in China" " oh, mine? Size M" then he started to talk with me, he can speak very little Chinese, because he has been to China once, he told me he loved China so much, he is Hybirde of Parkistan and Bangladash, but he was born in England, he has been an eye docotor almost 5 years.
Just like other Brithish Peopel, he is very kind, gental and nice, he left his Mobile no. and email address, he told me I could call him if I need any help. If this sort of thing happened in China, I would not trust him and even talk so long time, definetly not. but I am in England now,people just easy going, and want tohelp you from their heart.
He sent me some emails,I did not reply, coz I was just too busy, busy with study, busy with wash dishers and busy busy with phone my BF every day, I have to say I love my BF so much and I am sure he loves me so much as well.
Study time was a hard time, language difficult, tutor's accent, lots lots assignments and prensentations, I almost couldn't stand any more, I really haven't energy to do any part time job, but I have to do, because I need money, I only got the tutation fee with me, I have to earn my living expenses, i couldn't ask for my parents to help me, they are nearly 70 years old, they can't afford me....
Time went by, I met that doctor again in the town center, as you knew I was living in a very small donw, so it was not a surprise, he invent me for a coffe in "COFFEE NERO" by the river, we had a good chat, I told him my phone No. I felt we are closing.
He started to send me text messages, but just friendly greetings, one day, he phoned me and invent me for dinner in his house, "I'd love to go", I said, "OK I will pick you up on Sunday Morning, see you". I went to his house with a small gift, (copy the foreigner's hobby). His house was big, very good taste, clean. a lot of books and CD,VCD,DVD maybe more than 1000 sets. He made a very good thailand food for me, we talked a lot as well, his family, his 3 monthes marriage and I told him my life in China, my Family my BF etc.....
6 month gone, we fell in love???!!!! he helped me to check my assginment, my presentation, He picked me up from my wrokplace in the middle night, he bought me many many gifts ( from food to DCD player), he looked after me very well, he standed I phoned my BF everyday...
Actually, me and my BF already often quarral through the phone, but he still wait for me, he doesn't know what's happening in England, he can't come, coz we are not married!!
The doctor is a very good man, if I marry him, I am sure I will have a good life, he got good career, he treat me good, he is 3 years older than me, and I can get Brithish Passport easily. But, what about my BF, I have to say we got some gap already, we seprate too long time, he hasn't been chage anything, my parents still can't accept him, but i have no excuses to say "stop" to him, maybe I am too weak!!
I graduated, I have to say good bye to doctor, he want to keep me, but I refuse to him. he said" go back to China, Marry him and devoice, come back, I can marry you, we are equal""
crying crying, kissing kissing, the doctor saw me off in Manchester Airport, I came back to China 5 month ago.
Last month, I got married with my BF, we known each other 6 years. I feel strange, although we known each other such a long time, we have been together only 2 years, just like visit each other every Saturday or Sunday, never "Tong Ju" or Sth. The marriage life is so peaceful, nothing excited. I miss England him sometimes, miss the time we have been together( travel, cook,drive, shopping), miss the life there.
1 thing I want to ask for and idea shoud I tell him have been married or not???