Did not read through, but anyway
1, lonliness can never, ever be the reason to live together.
2, trust man but don't give up yourself so easily.
3, Know a man by knowing his family and his friends. If he keeps you only to himself and you, then forget it.
4, if the reason you want a man is because you want a marriage, you have to learn to wait. But if someone stay with you for a long time and still refuses to give u marriage, however you love him, you have to either give him up or forget marriage.
I understand, since many people accept the western culture and their attitude towards sex, but my lady, you, only you can decide what kind of life you want to have. If you are still, in deep of your heart, a Chinese with traditional family concept, then think about what I said. But if you are open to SO CALLED Canadian way of life, which I won't say is wrong, then you may forget whatever I said.
Anyway, good luck to you and take care of yourself.
