I honestly admitted it. And I always think that maybe I can find so called true love which doesn't involve sex and money.But more and more realities tell me that it is a truth.I am really upset at the fact.
ILIFE : 2009-06-30#5
回复: 婚姻就是性与金钱的交易
no !
I don't think so...
money and sex is something important that we must think about in the marriage, but it's not everything, and it's not the most important things for a marriage.
no !
I don't think so...
money and sex is something important that we must think about in the marriage, but it's not everything, and it's not the most important things for a marriage.
首先sex应该是双方enjoy的, 不是一方强迫另一方的. 其次money也是大家一起赚, 一起share的, 不应该是一方赚钱, 另一方享用的. 结婚以后, 两人组建了家庭, 双方都有义务和责任to build up and make it better, 双方都应该是enjoy这种家庭生活的, 特别是有了孩子后. 当然也会有烦恼的时候, but it's life. 这都是相对的. LZ的想法有点太偏激了.
首先sex应该是双方enjoy的, 不是一方强迫另一方的. 其次money也是大家一起赚, 一起share的, 不应该是一方赚钱, 另一方享用的. 结婚以后, 两人组建了家庭, 双方都有义务和责任to build up and make it better, 双方都应该是enjoy这种家庭生活的, 特别是有了孩子后. 当然也会有烦恼的时候, but it's life. 这都是相对的. LZ的想法有点太偏激了.
开开,对生活的观点有那么一点点negative and biased.婚姻怎么能叫性和金钱的交易呢?婚姻是两个人慢慢变老的过程,是两个人依偎着面对人世冷暖的坚强堡垒,是两个人辛苦哺育后代的nest,婚姻是相濡以沫。神圣的婚姻为什么在一些人的眼里仅仅成为金钱和性的交易?这不是婚姻的错,是婚姻中的人变了质。婚姻永远都是幸福和美好的期待。。。