Rich people can have a 2nd or 3rd kid in China as well...as long as you can afford the fine. If you care about the education in America, you can ask you kids to just study here when they grow up. So there is no reason why you need to come here. Don't separate with your wife and kid, it is really hard. Even though you don't have an affair with someone else, separation for such a long time will harm your relationship with both your wife and your kid.
Rich people can have a 2nd or 3rd kid in China as well...as long as you can afford the fine. If you care about the education in America, you can ask you kids to just study here when they grow up. So there is no reason why you need to come here. Don't separate with your wife and kid, it is really hard. Even though you don't have an affair with someone else, separation for such a long time will harm your relationship with both your wife and your kid.
I do have alternative rather than endure the fine which is really unacceptably expensive.
You are right, separation is being the biggest challenge to my decision now. This is why I'm struggling even my wife agreed to move to N.A herself. Anyways, whatever ways I would take, it would be reluctantly. Life is so, right?