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I am so depressed

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lucky_auo : 2006-02-28#1
I can not endure this life any more.I attended 2 interviews,but no result till now,I don't know what is my prospect,where is my future.....

星子 : 2006-02-28#2
才两次就这样了啊?虽然有点沮丧,但是大家都是找了多少次才找到阿,别泄气阿!如果在中国,你找两次不成功,你会这么沮丧么?别把困难扩大,跌倒了不爬起来就永远都别想爬起来。

rosecanada : 2006-02-28#3
Don't be depressed .I have been refused for two interviews. but My landlord said, you are so good that you can get interview. stick it out!

mikefeng : 2006-02-28#4
说的好

多伦多 : 2006-02-28#5
继续努力,会好的。

sofia : 2006-02-28#6
鼓励一下。别泄气。:wdb10:

appleking : 2006-02-28#7
加油,加油啦,,2次而已,不多啊,比你多的人多的事,,,,一个人最重要的就是信心,,自己不能先丢了信心啊,,,

Wonder : 2006-02-28#8
说实话,楼主的忍耐力实在差了点。

amyz8299 : 2006-02-28#9
可能你原来太顺了吧?

tuoyan : 2006-02-28#10
shadow 说:
呵呵,俺来8个月,发简历无数,一次面试都没得到呢,你还愁啥?
真是越来越佩服你了,一边工作,一边找专业工作,一边在这里不断的帮助他人

tuoyan : 2006-02-28#11
楼主别灰心啊,有这么多人支持你

luhui : 2006-02-28#12
呵呵,我们来了近1年了,我LG简历发了也有几百封了,只有一次正式的面试,还被人批得一塌糊涂,语言不好,技术不精.......。要是泄气的话,早就没法活了。

north york : 2006-02-28#13
CHEER UP! NO NEED TO BE DEPRESSED.

jun : 2006-02-28#14
别泄气,才2次面试,我发了无数简历,才一次面试,结果你猜怎么着,电话里说是office工作,其实是让我卖保险。:wdb15: :wdb15: :wdb15: lz不要回心,会有机会的。

xs-sherry : 2006-02-28#15
还是我出国前学习手艺了好!所以工作很好找!

laurence : 2006-02-28#16
别灰心,俺支持你

Paula : 2006-03-01#17
老外还是很重质量的,楼主不要灰心,要继续努力的充实自我!

karen2 : 2006-03-01#18
LZ不要灰心、继续加油!我在国内找工作也是投了N多N多N多简历,争取来了若干2个面试,,也是战败好多次,,但是重点是要屡败屡战,,,直到成功。GOOD LUCK!

gama : 2006-03-01#19
看了luhui的话,觉得大家的问题都在工一个地方:语言不好,技术不精
看来要努力提高语言和技术了!
luhui 说:
呵呵,我们来了近1年了,我LG简历发了也有几百封了,只有一次正式的面试,还被人批得一塌糊涂,语言不好,技术不精.......。要是泄气的话,早就没法活了。

lucky_auo : 2006-03-01#20
I have never been walking any straight road,even if in China,I still remembered those days that I stayed in Shanghai,It took me 9 months to find job.I feel the same situation in here,I am scared, if I can not find any jobs until 9 months,I will be hungry to death.I don't have any more money.
Whatever,thanks for everyone.good wishes to everybody!

红河谷 : 2006-03-01#21
这个样子还混什么混?趁早回中国去(不过说实在回中国象你这样也是没什么出息)!:wdb21:

growinghappiness : 2006-03-02#22
cheer up, and the future is just around the corner.

jedi : 2006-03-03#23
楼主别灰心呀,如果没钱了,找份Labor工,不会把你饿死的。主要是看你自己的规划啊,把自己的生活计划一下,那就会好很多的。

香香香 : 2006-03-03#24
别灰心,继续努力,努力~~~

laurence : 2006-03-03#25
别灰心,我昨天第一次面试,也是估计砸了,主要是法语不过关,我硬充好汉,非得去双语,唉!昨天回家后是满沮丧的,但是今天又重新振作起来了,继续投简历!

sunwinc : 2006-03-03#26
为什么不读书?

MAISIE : 2006-03-04#27
建议:
贷款读书,一般上课时间一天就几个小时,剩下的时间还可以找份PT的工作(估计得是累脖的,偶刚开学一个星期,正在满处找合适的工呢),可以等到贷款成功再上学,除了学费你也可以得到不少的生活费
老师昨天说:情绪不佳是就DAY DREAM, 就会从心里乐出来了!

yyy : 2006-03-04#28
挫折感谁都会有,但一定也要有坚持的韧性.有时,甚至要有点没心没肺和厚脸皮的精神.当然,我这话的实际意思是什么,过来的移友都有体会,都清楚.
移民是到自然天地里去闯荡.如果还把自己当成国内那种父母的心肝,单位的骨干,社会的精英,温室的花朵,那就趁早回去享受安乐吧.
不然,就精神一点.在哪里都是活,有心气的活法才是真正的生活.没什么大不了.
(偷偷说句厚脸皮的话,我找体力工发简历还只有10%的回复率,1%的成功率呢.):wdb9:

noby : 2006-03-04#29
才两次失败啊,不要那么悲观哦!

mimimo : 2006-03-04#30
楼主可能是太累了吧。不要灰心,继续努力,多和人交流交流。怎么会挨饿呢?去打雷伯工过度一下吧。
振作起来,生命是一个过程,每前进一步你都要为自己骄傲!

焊条 : 2006-03-04#31
加拿大多好鸭,找不到专业工作还有收入可观的LABOUR等着你,实在不幸还可以领救济啊;如果在上海这样的话,真的要被扫地出门,饿死大街了!那时候就不desperate了吧!快谢谢加拿大政府吧!

panda1220 : 2006-03-04#32
慢慢来吧

lucky_auo : 2006-03-05#33
谢谢大家的回复,我不会被轻易打倒的,我现在没什末好心情坏心情,只想找份工,不为别的,只为了鼓励同路人和我自己......

姗姗来迟 : 2006-03-05#34
找工作的过程中都会出现泄气的时候,建议楼主找份PARTTIME的工作做做,同时再找工作就没有那么郁闷了。

lycc : 2006-03-05#35
一切会好的!!

august : 2006-03-05#36
cheer up!
always have confidence in yourself and wish you the best with your job-hunting:)

agnes_lhy : 2006-03-06#37
Cheer up!
As long as you've made up your mind, hold on!

Things will get better with the time. Someone said "Learning English is like making pickles. When time comes, everything will be OK." , let alone life itself.

BeijingToronto : 2006-03-06#38
I wish I can HELP.

Here are good answers to some of the tougher questions asked in job interviews. If you can smoothly supply answers like these during the interview, you are bound to make a good impression.

1. What is important to you in a job?

Mention specific rewards other than a paycheck for example, challenge, the feeling of accomplishment, and knowing that you have made a contribution.

2. Why do you want to work for this organization?

Cite its reputation, the opportunities it offers, and the working conditions. Stress that you want to work for this organization, not just any organization.

3. Why should we employ you?

Point to your academic preparation, job skills, and enthusiasm about working for the firm. Mention your performance in school or previous employment as evidence of your ability to learn and to become productive quick

ly. If the job involves management responsibilities, refer to past activities as proof of your ability to get along with others and to work as part of a team.

4. If we hire you, how long will you stay with us?

Answer by saying along these lines: "As long as my position here allows me to learn and to advance at a pace with my abilities."

5. Can we offer you a career path?

Reply: "I believe you could, once I know the normal progression within the organization. Can you tell me about it?" The answer may be revealing.

6. What are your greatest strengths?

Give a response like one of the following: "I can see what needs to be done and do it", "I''m wiling to make decisions", "I work well with others," "I can organize my time efficiently."

7. What are you greatest weakness?

Identify one or two, such as the following:" I tend to drive myself toohard", " I expect others to perform beyond their capacities", " I like to see a job done quickly, and I''m critical if it isn''t." Note these weaknesses could also be regarded as desirable qualities. The trick with t

his question is to describe a weakness so that it could also be considered a virtue.

8. What didn''t you like about previous jobs you''ve held?

Discuss the things you didn''t like, but avoid making slighting reference to any of your former employers.

9. How do you spend your leisure time?

Mention a cross section of interests-active and quiet, social and solitary -- rather just one.

10. Are there any weaknesses in your education or experience?

Take stock of your weaknesses before the interview. Practice discussing them in a positive light. You''ll find that they are minor when discussed along with all the positive things you have to offer.

11. Where do you want to be five years from now?

Saying that you''d like to be president is unrealistic, yet few employers want people who are content to sit still. You might say, "in five year

s, I''d like to have my boss''s job. " If you can''t qualify for your boss''s job by then, you may not be the fright candidate.

12. What are your salary expectations?

If you are asked this at the outset, it''s best to say, "Why don''t we discuss salary after you decide whether I''m right for the job? "But if t

he interviewer asks this after showing real interest in you, speak up. She or he will probably try to meet your price. If you need a clue about what to ask for, say, " Can you discuss your salary range with me?"

13. What would you do if....?

This question is designed to test your reposes. For example: "What would you do if your computer broke down during an audit?" Your answer there isn''t nearly so important as your approach to the problem. And a calm a

pproach is best. Start by saying, "One thing I might do is ..." Then give several alternative choices.

14. What type of position are you interested in?

Job titles and responsibilities vary from firm to firm . So state your skills instead, such as "I''m good at figure work," and the positions that require these skills , such as "accounts payable."

15. Tell me something about yourself.

Say you''ll be happy to talk about yourself, and ask what the interviewer wants to know. If this point is clarified, respond. If not, tell why you feel your skills will contribute to the job and the organization. This question gives you a great opportunity to sell yourself.

16. Do you have any questions about the organization or the job?

Employers like a candidate who is interested in the organization. so this is a perfect time to convey your interest and enthusiasm.

lucky_auo : 2006-03-07#39
Thanks so much to Beijing Toronto!

zxz291 : 2006-03-09#40
jun 说:
别泄气,才2次面试,我发了无数简历,才一次面试,结果你猜怎么着,电话里说是office工作,其实是让我卖保险。:wdb15: :wdb15: :wdb15: lz不要回心,会有机会的。

卖保险不好吗?我听说,似乎在加国卖保险还是一个挺好的出路.在国外大家对保险的概念与国内是不太一样的吧.在国外处处都是需要保险的,客观环境让大家有了买保险的意识,应该不象是在国内那么难卖.