the best part of ugliness of chinese (don't throw bricks...),it's to compare themselves with others, in material possessions, in child's education, even in physical appearance.
once we abandon this ugly habit, we can be happy and have a decent respect from family members.
vanity or jealousy, both are the by-products of unquechable desires to get : money, power and love. three things which can explain all the illness in this world.
look, moral education is important. telle mère, telle fille.