一把辛酸泪 说:
i just feel very sorry for u. u know, the happy families are all the same, but the unhappy families have their own different stories. but the beginning is usually the same: happy couple first, then little by little, quarrels begin and things become sour.
i think that man needs to split some minutes every day to think whether their wifes feel happy, or just ask himself whether he is selfish or not.
when quarrels (not discussion) begin, man needs to flee or just have a walk out to abate his anger or control his temper.
when the problem is not solved, they can restart to discuss in one or two days.
this is just common sense, but i've spent nearly two years to learn it.
your divorce is necessary in my eyes, for your ex husband didn't assume his family responsabilities ( taking care of u and ur baby), and also he committed the adultery!
and so, u have made a good decision.
生活的不幸总是难以预测, 关键是可以自救. 你的选择是对的, 无论对自己,还是对孩子，都是最正确的选择. 我相信, 来到这边后，你会遇到真正值得一辈子相爱的另一半, 给你孩子更幸福的生活. 祝福你!