善良的人啊，用宽容的心看待一切吧

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善良的人啊，用宽容的心看待一切吧

原文链接：https://forum.iask.ca/threads/72755/

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#1

那是在中国的时候，刚刚跟我老公谈朋友，但是没有公开

一次工作的时候中午午休，大家都到公司附近的一个餐馆吃饭，一个很简单的像食堂一样的地方。老公他是一个不喜欢计较的人，他把我们带到食堂跟我们一起在那里吃，然后他为所有的人，包括操作工付钱，他说我的费用可以报销，他们不可以

在吃饭期间，有一个中国工程师就在我老公手下干的，他当着大家的面骂我老公，但是老公听不懂中国话，看着大家都在笑，他也只是傻笑，我心里很不是滋味，但是我们的关系没有公开，我也不好说什么。过后我也没有跟老公说，因为我不知道会不会影响他工作的情绪，毕竟他们天天工作在一起，他把他当成是好朋友。。

过了很长时间，我和老公快要结婚了。老公还是一味的对那个工程师很好，但是也很严格，因为他在培训他，后来我突然想起这件事，觉得很心疼，就委婉的跟老公说，再以后有人要是这么这么说你"1111"（对我老公来说就是一些发音），这是很不礼貌的，这样的人不是好人。老公是个很敏锐的人，他立即说那天那个工程师就这么说来着，我说我不记得了，但是你得知道什么是好人，什么是坏人，

他想了想跟我说：因为我是他的上司，可能有的时候我的严格，让他对我不满，不过谁都会有拿自己的老板开玩笑的时候，他还很年轻，经历不多，多工作几年就好了

在以后的工作中，他对他丝毫没有改变，现在他们真得成了朋友

这就是我最爱的老公

善良的人啊，用宽容的心对待一切吧

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#2

回头聊.俺睡了........再见.

taotao : 2006-08-25#3

看发展!啊----

真榕 : 2006-08-25#4

哈哈，善良宽容的，都盖楼来了。 :wdb6:

longforcanada : 2006-08-25#5

可惜我昨天没赶上，只好今天才来回看。。。：（

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#6

性情中人
打错字了，老公电脑的输入法我老用不好。

Aim : 2006-08-25#7

果果宝宝说:
霹雳同学：看你也是个经过世面之人，怎么这么过分，小女生阅历浅也不该招你这样奚落，你跟加拿大人有什么了不起的过节，要对一个追随爱情的女生穷追不舍。加拿大人善又怎样不善又怎样，那些以偏盖全的论点看过笑过就罢了，你还真把他们当回事，到处地抨击。年轻人幼稚可以原谅，难道你也幼稚？

还有房梁，一唱一喝的，原以为你好歹也是个性清之人，看错你了。

霹雳在家园本来是没有明显倾向性的，不过，在“逗闷子”心态下，变了。 :wdb16:

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#8

房梁说:
霹雳是针对没嫁给洋人，但有这个想法的中国人说的，和已经嫁了的无关啊。已经嫁了的晚了。
我和谁唱了还喝了？你是想说一唱一和吧？该死的错字，弄晕了我了。你能看对我吗？我可是不容易看透的。把我的所有贴都认真研究一遍再说吧。估计你还小呢。

霹雳自己出来说。

光唱不喝有什么劲，女人过了三十五，每天喝适量红酒好啊。

philyuan : 2006-08-25#9

a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#10

philyuan 说:
a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

Totally agree, maybe I should not talk about my personal things here, and I never want to compare Chinese and Canadians, both are human, it is no meaning to compare.
I just told what I felt, the canadians in my life, the ones I have ever met are quite nice, and of course especially my husband, "Il est mon amour".
Just because another topic hurt my feeling a little bit. So it is a good leson for me, never talk about personal things on the net, not too late to know that, en? :wdb6:

Thanks .

房梁 : 2006-08-25#11

philyuan 说:
a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

[FONT=宋体]我倒是觉得能爱一个人，就好，不论他什么国籍，什么性别，所以我对同性恋也能保持接受的态度。异国恋根本就更没什么可谈论的，不必歧视也不必羡慕，不必诽谤也不必提倡。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]在乱爱（恋爱的谐音）这方面，我是很[/FONT]OPEN [FONT=宋体]的。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]对你开个玩笑。[/FONT] two people love each other and then make a family.[FONT=宋体]你这句话最后一个词应该改成[/FONT]LOVE [FONT=宋体]就显得更高级更没局限了。[/FONT]

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#12

philyuan 说:
a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

如果要说道说道可就太长了，懒得打字。

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#13

vickyzyd 说:
Totally agree, maybe I should not talk about my personal things here, and I never want to compare Chinese and Canadians, both are human, it is no meaning to compare.
I just told what I felt, the canadians in my life, the ones I have ever met are quite nice, and of course especially my husband, "Il est mon amour".
Just because another topic hurt my feeling a little bit. So it is a good leson for me, never talk about personal things on the net, not too late to know that, en?
Thanks .

你不是因为谈论个人隐私被攻击，你不会不明白吧 :wdb5:

？

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#14

果果宝宝说:
你不是因为谈论个人隐私被攻击，你不会不明白吧？

I know the root, but if I didn't tell them I have a canadian husband, then it won't be like this, do you understand? :wdb5:

What I have said will change sth. Wait a little bit, you will see

Wonder : 2006-08-25#15

不是吧，双子楼还嫌不够，非要凑成仨？

Wonder : 2006-08-25#16

那这个楼也得留下俺的汗水。。。

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#17

Wonder 说:
那这个楼也得留下俺的汗水。。。

呵呵，这楼没打算盖多高，应该不会太高的，汗水流错地方了 :wdb6:

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#18

果果宝宝说:
霹雳自己出来说。

光唱不喝有什么劲，女人过了三十五，每天喝适量红酒好啊。

我要说的就是....房梁是雄纠纠的男子汉....

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#19

Aim 说:
霹雳在家园本来是没有明显倾向性的，不过，在“逗闷子”心态下，变了。

不对...俺早就知道...房梁是雄纠纠的男子汉.....

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#20

霹雳游侠说:
你没事侃英语干什么? 为了告诉大家你不是站街女? 有文化? 现在北京会英语的鸡多了去了.

还是讲母语最痛快...你天天跟老公,在桌边,在床头,讲英语还没讲够呀.....

哈哈

I speak English to avoid people like you, because people like you are too stupid to understand English, so you will be out of my talk, if you can, talk English to us, you said you had a canadian friend, didn't you? then you should be able to speak English with us, so ...talk, talk in English, with less ugly words :wdb6:

拉拉驹 : 2006-08-25#21

见“鬼”了，偶初来咋到，涉世未深，身边的洋人无论朋友、邻里、陌生人个个友善，难道是偶的运气太好了？！ :wdb18:

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#22

拉拉驹说:
见“鬼”了，偶初来咋到，涉世未深，身边的洋人无论朋友、邻里、陌生人个个友善，难道是偶的运气太好了？！

我也是，是咱们运气好呀 :wdb6:

而且咱们心态好

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#23

看看俺的新贴子去..都别吵了啊......

俺的新口号...蒙特利尔.结束争吵..一切向前看.创建和谐社会.
霹雳游侠

http://post.iask.ca/canadameet/topic/72789

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#24

vickyzyd 说:
I speak English to avoid people like you, because people like you are too stupid to understand English, so you will be out of my talk, if you can, talk English to us, you said you had a canadian friend, didn't you? then you should be able to speak English with us, so ...talk, talk in English, with less ugly words

He is stupid, isn't he

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#25

哈哈哈. 哈哈哈........ 哈哈哈哈................

俺傻.....好了吧?

MyChristmas : 2006-08-25#26

看房梁的帖子，挺好玩．

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#27

霹雳游侠说:
哈哈哈. 哈哈哈........ 哈哈哈哈................

俺傻.....好了吧?

You are, but not only that, you talk dirty, out of class, cheating everybody here

MyChristmas : 2006-08-25#28

对房梁的观点不必太认真

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#29

有中国口音...呵呵

vickyzyd : 2006-08-25#30

Maychristian 说:
对房梁的观点不必太认真

understand, thanks

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#31

Maychristian 说:
对房梁的观点不必太认真

看俺新贴..不吵了啊....

MyChristmas : 2006-08-25#32

男士有老虎先生，女士有房梁，都是能活跃论坛，逗乐的人．
一笑而过

黑小子 : 2006-08-25#33

挺好的一个帖子，让你们一搅和，vickyzyd可能也没有继续下去的热情了，诸位留点口德，不愿看大可绕着走！

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#34

vickyzyd 说:
You are, but not only that, you talk dirty, out of class, cheating everybody here

是你．．一开始假纯真．披着道德的外套骗大家．在别的贴子里你脏话最多．人最贱

dxb6620 : 2006-08-25#35

霹雳游侠说:
是你．．一开始假纯真．披着道德的外套骗大家．在别的贴子里你脏话最多．人最贱

don't waste time and disappear asap,you talk too dirty,before opening your mounth you should clean it thoroughly

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#36

你记住,俺对什么人说什么话.

dxb6620 : 2006-08-25#37

what you said contaminate here,leave here and go home

taotao : 2006-08-25#38

dxb6620 说:
what you said contaminate here,leave here and go home

说话记得要温柔啊!

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#39

没水准了，不看了。

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#40

霹雳游侠说:
你记住,俺对什么人说什么话.

好吧，给你加一次纷纷。

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#41

霹雳游侠说:
我要说的就是....房梁是雄纠纠的男子汉....

这位同学，你这是夸房梁呢还是骂房梁？我这人不带脏字骂人骂惯了，老以为别人也这么干。

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#42

俺从心里佩服她的勇气....关于俺的事.俺不是跟你聊过吗?

房梁 : 2006-08-25#43

宠辱不惊，夸和骂都经历的多了，没什么。愿意回就回，不想回出去玩。

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#44

拉拉驹说:
见“鬼”了，偶初来咋到，涉世未深，身边的洋人无论朋友、邻里、陌生人个个友善，难道是偶的运气太好了？！

这位大姐，涉世未深被你拿来用不太合适吧，“友善”字面上的意思跟人们内心想表达的感受是一回事吗？这就跟房梁说她从不带脏字如出一辙。凡是认识五千个汉字以上的同学，你们说说房梁是不是常骂人？脏字算什么?小儿科。

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#45

算了算了...俩大姐.......都是俺朋友...

都别吵了.................................................

poorguy8 : 2006-08-25#46

果果宝宝..回多伦多去吧...回头俺找你...

房梁 : 2006-08-25#47

果宝，你这是拍拉拉据姐姐，还捎带上我呢。
但是骂人与否的标准，就是看脏字啊，系统也是看谁说了脏字就立刻红牌的。
所以啊，要先学会不带脏字，在站出来说话，或者说话前先刷牙。
很多人说话不带脏字就不会说话，另外的人5000字都一个脏字不带，照样长篇大论，立地有声，这叫素质。

拉拉姐可不是涉世未深，那是相当地有城府，房梁和她不是一个级别的。房梁是天真的没长大的孩子。

果果宝宝 : 2006-08-25#48

Maychristian 说:
男士有老虎先生，女士有房梁，都是能活跃论坛，逗乐的人．
一笑而过

老虎先生：依本座的愚见，有人骂你了，骂得着实不轻啊。

房梁 : 2006-08-25#49

哈，终于让我抓住了，果果宝宝，不带脏字地骂了房梁。

周运发 : 2006-08-25#50

噢爷
强贴要留名

MyChristmas : 2006-08-25#51

果果宝宝说:
老虎先生：依本座的愚见，有人骂你了，骂得着实不轻啊。

论坛里刀光箭影,斗争太激烈了.都是些文化人的事.俺不参与了. :wdb13:

taotao : 2006-08-26#52

vickyzyd 说:
You are, but not only that, you talk dirty, out of class, cheating everybody here

认真的讲,他说的是真的.我还听说一个外国小伙交了个北京女朋友,但不知道那天就不见了,而且他有爱滋病,想必已经感染了吧.

philyuan : 2006-08-29#53

果果宝宝说:
你不是因为谈论个人隐私被攻击，你不会不明白吧？

ok, i put down this not for critizing the LZ, but on the contrary, i cannot help saying sth. and helping the lz. there is someone in this site who speaks somehing really stupid against the lz.
so i think u'd better read other posts before asking this easy and rush question.

anyway, look before leap.

philyuan : 2006-08-29#54

vickyzyd 说:
Totally agree, maybe I should not talk about my personal things here, and I never want to compare Chinese and Canadians, both are human, it is no meaning to compare.
I just told what I felt, the canadians in my life, the ones I have ever met are quite nice, and of course especially my husband, "Il est mon amour".
Just because another topic hurt my feeling a little bit. So it is a good leson for me, never talk about personal things on the net, not too late to know that, en?
Thanks .

it seems that u misunderstood me also.
but on the contrary, i understand why u showed your feelings here, for i've read some other posts concerned.

'lovers want to be left alone', once said a young couple to XU ZHIMO.but lovers also want to share their sweet stories. for this, i have no any intention to refuse if u would like.

only because i've read another topic which 'hurts your feelings a little bit', i decided to write these words, if possible, in order to comfort you.

Aim : 2006-08-29#55

霹雳游侠说:
在别的贴子里你脏话最多．人最贱

哈哈，逮住了逮住了！霹雳不厚道，好好的说话，最后还带不文明语言。洗心革面的事俺就不指望你做了，限期整改不算难吧？

taotao : 2006-08-29#56

taotao 说:
认真的讲,他说的是真的.我还听说一个外国小伙交了个北京女朋友,但不知道那天就不见了,而且他有爱滋病,想必已经感染了吧.

没人信?

philyuan : 2006-08-29#57

房梁;963709[SIZE=3 说:
two people love each other and then make a family.[FONT=宋体]你这句话最后一个词应该改成[/FONT]LOVE [FONT=宋体]就显得更高级更没局限了。[/FONT][/SIZE]

laisse-moi rire. (let me laugh) :wdb6:

what's about during your marriage? u are always open?
i become extremly conventional after marriage. of course, i was open before my marriage. u know, that old good time in university.... i cannot continue, u know, my wife will not make dinner for me if i lose my sense...

by the way, u look beautiful (ravissante). if u can change your temperature, i even want to chase u. (let me look around myself if there is someo.... just a joke.) :wdb6:

房梁 : 2006-08-29#58

一个人的性情会因为结婚而改变吗？
我不认为自己是美女，虽然很多人都爱这么说，但我主要是臭美。

philyuan : 2006-08-29#59

taotao 说:
没人信?

hi, this girl has a long history.
several moths ago, this girl attended an international conference of aids in toronto, and represented the whole china.
according to the international herald tribune, this girl is considered as 'the most bravest women' in china, for she spoke her sufferings in public and aroused the people's thoughts about our national aids protection' s weeknesses.

精灵 : 2006-08-29#60

支持楼主。

taotao : 2006-08-29#61

philyuan 说:
hi, this girl has a long history.
several moths ago, this girl attended an international conference of aids in toronto, and represented the whole china.
according to the international herald tribune, this girl is considered as 'the most bravest women' in china, for she spoke her sufferings in public and aroused the people's thoughts about our national aids protection' s weeknesses.

so,who knows!

poorguy8 : 2006-08-29#62

认真的讲,他说的是真的.我还听说一个外国小伙交了个北京女朋友,但不知道那天就不见了,而且他有爱滋病,想必已经感染了吧.

没人信?

大家都信.....有个别人不信..那人说:这就是爱，有了爱，你就会勇敢地面对一切(包括爱滋病)

精灵 : 2006-08-29#63

房梁说:
一个人的性情会因为结婚而改变吗？
我不认为自己是美女，虽然很多人都爱这么说，但我主要是臭美。

能把臭变成美也不容易呢 :wdb25:

房梁 : 2006-08-29#64

臭美的意思是本人一向追求美，比如爱照镜子，就是一般人说的臭美。
论长相，其实任何人都有自己的美丽之处，只是有人擅长发挥自己的美丽，有人对此没兴趣。
擅长发挥的人经常被叫做美女，实际上，公认的美女不过都是喜欢臭美而已。
完全素面朝天，不加装饰，天然去雕饰的美女反而不容易被人们发现。静静地开放，静静地凋谢而已。
所以公然的被叫作美女的女子，并不是比其他女子更美，而是她们会臭美而已。
这是房梁第一次在网络上袒露自己关于美丽的观念。又要砖头横飞了。

philyuan : 2006-08-29#65

房梁说:
一个人的性情会因为结婚而改变吗？
我不认为自己是美女，虽然很多人都爱这么说，但我主要是臭美。

it's difficult, but to be open or not, it's an easy question for me, for everything outside marriage looks dangerous and changeable. but on the contrary, living in the family circle gives me a large space of freedom: with the love i can feel and touch, i can develop my other qualities. and most importantly, i have time to enjoy my life. ( u know, u worry nothing, and u rest ZEN)
there is an american film whose name escapes me, sth about a love affaire outside marriage, and u know, the result is catastrophic: the outside woman wanted to kill the hero's wife. after the appearance of this film, many americans abandoned their love affaires and continued their normal life, with happiness or not, but with tranquility, of course.
u know, man likes beautiful girls, for he is married or not. but step outside a little bit will pose a serious problem. i stop here, for this question has been debated for nearly two thousand years. (man's love and woman's love)

your last word, i regard it as a humble attitude.(qianxu)

房梁 : 2006-08-29#66

廊桥遗梦，你看女人要走出那一步有多难，一样比男人难。

prcll : 2006-08-29#67

房梁说:
廊桥遗梦，你看女人要走出那一步有多难，一样比男人难。

宋丹丹不是说了吗，做个名老女人男！！！

Aim : 2006-08-29#68

prcll 说:
宋丹丹不是说了吗，做个名老女人男！！！

哈哈哈哈

房梁 : 2006-08-29#69

你别提她好吗？至于为什么，我这里不方便说。

prcll : 2006-08-29#70

房梁说:
你别提她好吗？至于为什么，我这里不方便说。

我就知道你不会这么早的抛弃我的，想上床也没那么容易－－哈哈哈哈

至于方便与否你就自便吧，民主自由嘛。

房梁 : 2006-08-29#71

prcll 说:
我就知道你不会这么早的抛弃我的，想上床也没那么容易－－哈哈哈哈

至于方便与否你就自便吧，民主自由嘛。

我说的是不方便说丹丹。
自己编出来一句双关语的话，把自己逗得笑得那么厉害。连着哈了四次。属于罕见的严重的自娱自乐型。
可惜我现在已经在床上了。 :wdb5:

吧

这个贴已经超级跑题。

philyuan : 2006-08-29#72

房梁说:
廊桥遗梦，你看女人要走出那一步有多难，一样比男人难。

the bridge of the madison county, a beautiful movie, and i even remember every word of this film. u know, something like a fluid and fresh spring, and make me hesitate to have a long walk or not after a humble dinner. u cannot say 'hope or despaire', for it's too beautiful and these words will destroy the touch 'esthetique' of the sight.

but west is west, home is best, anyway, home is safe. living most of her time in a samll town makes the heroine wonder the outside of her rigid circle: hard working husband, small kids who grow up and will leave one day, kind neighbours, animal market....
u know, she will feel lonesome or just want to have a changement of air, or just have a chance to 'revivre' her young girl's dream. it's normal... et c'est la vie.

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