You misunderstand me.
I posted a question there just because I don't like the people always scolding another nation, and in his mind what Chinese have done are always to the willing of god. ]
here, i don't understand why i have scolded another nation, of course, u refer to 'canada'.
i'm here to talk people to respect each other, don't use dirty language; at the same time, i use an example to illustrate how we are weak (for we seldom use harsh words to a local person although this local person is not correct in a specified situation , but someone here is never frugal in using dirty words to our own people). look, i scold no nation, and these incorrect local people never stand for the whole canada, and of course, your family neither.
after three years of residence in canada, i will be naturalised and acquire a right of vote. legally speaking, there is no any difference between your canadian husband and me, except that your tolerant husband is indian.
so, anyway, and most importantly, don't regard the chinese immigrants as ingratitude persons. we come here only because we think canada is better country, and the canadian gouvernment gives us this chance. we work more diligently than many other people. we pay the taxe not less than your husband. we love this country as the master of this country, for we can elect our own leader once the vote right acquired.
"'and in his mind what Chinese have done are always to the willing of god. ''
u make me laugh. try to ask your knowledgable father-in-law two questions: why his forefather was determined to go a long way from europe to north america? in the name of God, or in the name of king?
if ur father-in-law is a french descendant, ask him why his quebec friends try everything to make the french language as the predominant language in quebec? why 'la révolution tranquille'? why 'le partie québecois'? why '101'?
if ur father-in-law is an english descendant, ask him why his peers and friends try everything to adopt a positive discrimination policy in quebec, in the field of education and also of language.
the number of our chinese immigrants is considerable, and this number is becoming bigger and bigger. but our community is too weak, and so we just want to do something; perhaps firstly, stop stupid quarrels and be kind with our own people.
that's it.
from what u said, i'm surprised to find u really lack the knowledge of the history, and esp. the chinese history. we, during the one hundrend and fifty years, were very weak. we have never pretended to act 'ACCORDING TO THE WILL OF GOD', for most of our national tragedies (qing dynasty)were imposed by other peoples who considered themselves as the God's voice. don't mention their long and cruel reglious battles in istanbul.